Men are slick, there’s no denying that. But, even with their best efforts, there are tell-tale signs that the man you are getting boo’d-up with may be a player. The signs are there, believe me. All you have to do is look.
Mind his phone manners
You know when his friends call, because you practically have to tell him to keep his voice down as he enthusiastically chats away with them. When a female calls, the difference is oh so obvious. The television will practically be on mute, but he has a problem hearing the person on the phone and has to leave the room speaking in soft, hushed tones.
Open your eyes; he is already wooing your replacement.
He seems more interested in getting you in bed than entertaining any long term discussion
You have been dating for just a short time, but he’s more interested in taking the relationship to the ‘next level’, than taking time to explore the friendship. He resists any attempt you make to introduce him to your family and find every excuse to not take you to his.
Girlfriend your sight is failing you, if you don’t realize he only has one thing on his mind and it’s not anything long term.
He knows nothing about you
Is he deaf or something? You have, on several occasions, shared things about yourself with him, your likes, dislikes, but he constantly asks you the same questions.
Ok then, you have to be blind to not see that your conversations are not registering; he ain’t that interested to listen to what you have to say. Clearly he has one agenda and once that’s met, he’s gone with the wind!
He is too smooth
He knows all the right things to say. He can predict your every need. He showers you with gifts that practically melt your heart. He seems so in tune with your deepest emotions. Attentive, romantic, charming, he just seems too good to be true.
While we acknowledge that there are some terrific guys out there, don’t let your guard down. If it all seems too terrific to be real – watch it! It probably is.
We are not relationship killers! We just want to ensure you know what you are getting into. After all, love is a game for keeps so make sure you are not in the ring to be played.